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| Sunrise at 7:35 am on Sunday, December 21, 2025 |
An account of my attempts at growing vegetables, flowers and native plants - some that turned out Ok, and some that didn't.
I ended up with about 50 seeds. Now...how to plant them?
I figured they'd be like other fall-ripening wild fruits where they just needed a period of cold moist stratification in order to germinate. I couldn't find much at all online, but finally came across a post where someone who had started some Viburnum plants from seed said they first needed warm moist stratification then cold moist stratification.
So I have them in some potting mix in a couple of flower pots ...
After about a month and a half, I couldn't help but dig around in the pots to see if anything was going on, and I think one of the berries had a tiny root coming out of it.
In Pursuit of the blackhaw (Part 2) - December 10, 2024
What I had thought was a tiny root on that seed turned out to be nothing. By summer, not a single seed had germinated. I dumped the pots out and looked through the dirt for the seeds. I found them, but they all looked completely dead. I got a bigger pot, dumped all of the dirt and seeds from the two original pots in it, and just set it out in my woodland garden - just in case the seeds might not actually be dead.
I didn't forget about the seeds - I watered them when I watered other the plants in the woodland garden, but when an entire year passed with no sign of any germination, I had pretty much written the whole thing off as another failure.
So I can't even begin to describe how shocked (and excited) I was when I watered the pots in the woodland garden yesterday.
What was that? Was I imagining things????
No, I wasn't. There it was - one tiny pale seedling poking up through the soil.
Now of course I may be all excited for nothing, because it may turn out to be something like a privet seed that a bird planted in the pot.
But I don't think so. I am pretty sure I can see the flat black seed coat. It appears to have split open, setting the tiny leaves free.
But the million dollar question...why on EARTH did it decide to germinate now? We're heading into the coldest part of the year. Blackhaw is a deciduous shrub, so I can't imagine that the seedlings are supposed to come up in the fall or winter!
I wonder if temperature swings (cold at night, then warm in the day when the sun was shining on the pot) tricked the seed into thinking it was spring.
Well, no matter. I'm not taking any chances that it will be killed by the cold weather. I brought the pot inside and put it under the grow light with my citrus trees. My hope is that if one is germinating, now that I've brought the pot inside where it's warmer, there will be more.
Have I finally gotten lucky? If it does turn out to be a blackhaw, and it doesn't die from dampening off or something (like Betty Boop, the kitten, eating it) maybe I'm going to actually have a blackhaw shrub to go in my yard.
That just made my day!!!
This past summer was, as my little sister said, a "mean summer."
I suppose that's not unusual though. I can remember as a kid scanning the intense blue summer sky for clouds and just wishing so hard that it would rain. School would start in August, and the afternoon rides home on the un-air-conditioned bus were sweltering hot, even with every window on the bus down.
But eventually the weather would break, the daytime temperatures would return to at least bareable and the rains would return.
We made it to that "end of summer" weather for 2025. After what I suspect will be yet another hot/dry - probably record hot yet again - finally we got some slightly cooler temperatures and some much needed rain in late August and mid-September. It was still hot out in the sun during the afternoons, anywhere from mid-80s to low 90s, but the nighttime temperatures were much cooler and the forecast showed highs in the upper 70s in the coming days.
So what happened in The Meadow over the summer?
In mid-June, the weedy-looking mess gave me a little glimpse of what I hope will be its future beauty.
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| The meadow, on June 19 of its first year. |
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| Spotted Bee Balm (Monarda punctata) |
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| Purple Love Grass (Eragrostis pectinacea). Sadly, these two clumps didn't survive the summer. |
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| Tall Thistle (Cirsium altissimum) |
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| Splitbeard Bluestem (Andropogon ternarius), surrounded by what I believe was crab grass. |
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| Plains Coreposis (Coreopsis tinctoria) rescued from the Sparks place, just starting to bloom. |
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| Old Field Goldenrod (Solidago nemoralis) |
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| Splitbeard Bluestem (Andropogon ternarius) |
A little over a year ago, I wrote a post about an insect pest whose behavior seems against its self-interest. The unanswered question in that post was "why do cutworms cut down (and therefore kill) the young plants they feed on?"
Today, I'm asking the same question about squash vine borers (Eichlinia cucurbitae).
A squash plant will go from looking like this...
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| (Unfortunately, I don't have a "before" picture of the plant in question, so I had to settle for a picture of the one growing in the same hill.) |
...to looking like this in a matter of hours.
I've tried really hard to take care of my squash and pumpkins this year, making the rounds twice a day to check for and remove any squash bugs or squash bug eggs that I find. And as I make my rounds, I try to check for signs of the squash vine borers and their eggs.
I thought I was doing a good job. I hadn't seen any signs of frass coming from the stem on any plants, including the one in the picture.
But when I looked out the window at the garden this afternoon and saw one of the plants wilting much more than would be expected in the afternoon sun, I knew what was causing it. The plant seemed fine this morning.
Obviously, I wasn't doing as well at detecting the pests as I thought.
From past experience, I know that once the plant wilts, it can't be saved. So I just got my box cutter, cut it off at the base, and pulled the rooted part out of the ground.
The damage is always extensive and absolute. And looking inside the stem, one can see why the plant won't survive. The insides are nothing but mush. The poor plant has zero chance once the borers are inside for any length of time.
So again, I find myself asking, "Why they do this?!!!!"
What does the moth benefit by killing the plant it depends on before the plant has even had a chance to produce seeds?
I've harvested seven yellow squash this year, and was looking forward to having more. After today, I'm wondering if the other plants will be wilted later today or tomorrow.
Because squash vine borers have become such a problem for me, I actually planted a second and third round of seeds. The plant that died today was from the second planting. The third ones just came up a couple of days ago. Maybe those plants will be growing in the window of time when the borers aren't active? I hope so.
When the shade gets over the garden this evening, I intend to try to dig down to find the pupa. I expected it to be buried down in the soil under the plant, but didn't see it when I scratched around in the dirt. I probably didn't dig down deep enough, or maybe didn't go out far enough from the plant.
But if I find it, I will very gladly smash it with my boot. And as it sees my boot coming down on it, I hope it is thinking, "Why she do this?!!!"
Update 6/21:
I never did find the chyrsalis of the caterpillar that killed my squash vine. But I found several eggs on the squash yesterday and today.
Those were scraped off and squished between my fingers.
And I noticed several leaves with frass coming out a hole near the top of the stem. I cracked the stems open and found the nasty little caterpillars.
I stomped them with my boot.
I got it in my head that I wanted to turn the west field into a wildflower meadow.
RAF helped me move the fence, and after that was done, I felt quite intimidated.
What I thought was going to be a small meadow seemed overwhelmingly large after the old fence was gone...especially large when I put down my 10'x 16' billboard tarp to start killing out the bermuda grass.
With only a small tarp like that, and taking into account that the grass has to stay covered for at least a year to be sure it's good and dead, I estimated it would take me over 100 years to kill out all of the grass just using my billboard tarp.
Needless to say, I don't think the tarp will last that long - and I certainly know I won't!
Many experts who create native wildflower meadows recommend killing the existing vegetation with herbicide. And while I'm not opposed to all use of herbicide (recall my war on privet) I'd prefer not to use it unless I have no other choice.
So my older sister and her husband run a market garden, and I asked her one day if they had an old silage tarp I could buy. She said they didn't have one to sell, but they had one I could "borrow indefinitely." (I'm still trying to figure out how to make that loan fair to them. I'll think of something.)
I was anxious to get started on the meadow, so late last summer, I decided I'd take a chance that the grass under the billboard tarp had been killed. I dragged it over 9' to the west.
In the "bare" 10' x 16' space where the tarp had originally been, I set out a few native plants that I had started from seed, transplanted some plants that had come up in "the wrong place" and scattered some seeds I had collected or that were given to me:
In the early spring of this year, I picked up the silage tarp from my sister. The tarp had been cut into three smaller pieces, which was very good, because they are pretty heavy when they're all in one piece. After battling the strong winds that kept blowing the tarp around, I ended up putting it in a "U" shape around the billboard tarp, weighted down with t-posts and some old wheels and tires.
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| Purple Lovegrass |
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| Plains Coreopsis? |
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| Spiderwort |
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| Five nuts from cross 36xx, received on 12/14/2024 |
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| Five nuts from cross CT-1, received on 2/6/2025. |
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| Little chinquapin tree from cross CT-1. |
The Waiting Month finally ended. The yard and garden were quiet.
When my little sister said maybe she could come take a tour, there was really nothing much to see. "Just a patch of hope here, and a patch of wishes there," I told her.
But as the days slowly got longer and the temperatures warmer, things began to wake up from the winter sleep.
By March 7, the cereal rye/hairy vetch cover crop had grown a couple of inches.
One of the catkins on the American Hazelnut opened and released little puffs of pollen every time the wind breathed on it.